Every profile shows what matters — deen, background, what they’re looking for. Never a name. Never a photo. Nothing that identifies anyone.
Browse the private channel whenever you like. When someone looks right, tap Express Interest.
Brothers and sisters can both browse and both express interest. Nobody is passive here.
When someone expresses interest in you, you receive a private notification through the Mithaq bot — with their profile attached, so you can review them properly.
No one can message you directly. No unsolicited contact of any kind. Nothing is shared until you approve it.
Take the time you need. Consult your wali. Pray istikhara. There is no rush and no one is watching.
If someone else is already being considered, you join a queue and you’re told your position. You’ll be notified the moment it’s your turn.
Your position is private — she never knows who else is waiting, and you are never bombarded with requests.
Changed your mind? Withdraw at any time, and express interest elsewhere.
How you connect depends on who approved.
If she approves, he receives her wali’s name and contact, privately. He reaches out through the wali — Mithaq does not facilitate direct messaging between men and women.
If he approves, she receives his contact directly, along with a female relative of his if he has provided one, so first contact can be made through a woman in his family if she prefers.
From here it is between the wali, the two of them, and Allah. May He put barakah in it.
You never need to add a photo. If you do, it is never shown publicly, never in the channel, and never on the website.
A photo is only ever exchanged privately with one person, and only when you have both added one and both choose to share. Never one-sided.
You’re in control. Add, change or remove your photo at any time.
Declining is a normal and expected part of the process. It is not awkward — it is the system working as it should. Choose a reason from the list, or write your own. The other person is notified privately and the queue moves on. Your profile stays active.
Receiving a decline is not a reflection on you. It simply means the fit wasn’t right at this time. The right person is still out there insha’Allah.
Mithaq runs through a private Telegram bot. It is free to download and takes 2 minutes to set up.
Never. Your photo is only shared if you choose to share it privately with someone whose interest you have approved.
You can pause your profile at any time through the bot, or contact us to remove it entirely.
No. Mithaq is completely free to use.
That’s completely fine. If you don’t have a wali, Mithaq will help arrange your introduction with care — a member of our team will speak with you first, and nothing is shared without your consent.
You can express interest at any time. When you do, the other person is notified privately and chooses whether to approve nothing about you is shared unless they do, and you’re free to express interest in others while you wait.
Your privacy is central to how Mithaq works. Here is exactly how you are protected:
• Your name, photo, and contact details are never shown publicly. In the profile listing you are identified only by a reference number — never your name.
• Nothing about you is shared with anyone else unless you personally approve it. When someone expresses interest, you decide whether to accept before any details are exchanged.
• You control how much detail is shown on your profile — including whether your location appears as your general area rather than your specific town or city.
• For sisters, your own contact details are never shared. Only your wali’s contact is passed on, and only after your approval, so any introduction happens in the proper manner.
• There is no public messaging, no swiping, and no way for a stranger to contact you directly. Introductions only happen through the approved process.
• You are always in control. You can pause your profile, edit it, or remove it entirely at any time.
Our intention is to make searching for marriage safe, dignified, and modest — the way it should be.